To Whom it May Concern 2

To Whom it may concern:
Would you please get off my back about marriage. I am just fine being single.
Can you just accept me as I am. Can you please accept that I could get married
at *gasp* 23. Would you just accept that I don't date and that I'm better at being
friends with guys. I'm flattered that you think I could have a date every night of
the week but thats not me. Let me be the girl I want to be. Let me grow and
experience life without the extra stress.  Let me be my own kind of beautiful.
Stop comparing me to other girls or "her" in particular! Just love me for me. Just
look at me for who I am. Let me speak my mind. Let me be me.

I love myself for who I am and you, you apparently don't know me.

Chloe

Boy that felt good. Ha I think feel better now.

To Whom it May Concern

To whom it may concern:
I'm grateful that you care about me and hope I get the best in my life...
but really I'm tired of getting asked,"Do you have a boyfriend {yet}?"
If I did I'm sure you would already know. I hate it! I feel like I'm being
judged! I'm happy with out one. I just haven't met the right guy yet I guess.
Dating is not what my life is about yet or will it ever be. Its not going
to consume me like other girls. I hardly get asked out on dates ever
and its no big deal for me! It took me until college to realize
nothing is wrong with me because I don't date religiously or ever.
I'm just better at being great friends with guys than being a dating material.
Its okay, I'm accepting for what it is. Maybe someday , a boy will
appreciate that I'm good at being friends with boys. He'll be glad
I'm not a BYU-I love-crazed girl. He'll be glad I don't put pressure
on the first date like some girls. He'll think smart{I don't play dumb},
he think I'm funny{I'll tell it as it is}, and happy{I don't depend on
others to be happy, they're an added bonus}. It is not something
I am going to force. It will happen when I least expect it. So please
stop asking about it and I promise you'll know when it happens.
I still love you.  But please...please stop asking. Next time just
ask me how my semester is or if I had fun...It more exciting than
hearing "Nope!"

Love,
Chloe{Victoria}